Thursday, July 11, 2013

Gang Rape in India.

Another rape in India: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-india-22763734
Careful if you travel there and think twice before couchsurfing. Girls, it's really better to avoid male hosts in India. Some are surely harmless and friendly but better safe than sorry.
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  • Bad experiences with Couchsurfing: the dark side No, but do you really think those rapists will avoid CS??? You just don't couchsurf as a woman in certain countries if you want to stay safe. I would never couchsurf with a male host in India. It's common sense. I can't hire a detective before accepting an invitation. In CS groups some Indian hosts wrote death threats against someone who posted a link to a US animation movie because they thought it was making fun of their religion. Charming. But hey, don't let facts get in your way. Happy surfing in India. I'll check the crime section to hear more about your trip.
  • Roberta Cervantes Garcia But she DIDN'T COUCHSURF! SHE HITCHIKED! This is obviously far riskier than CouchSurfing. "I can't hire a detective before accepting an invitation." POINT ME WHERE ON THE ARTICLE THE WORDS: INVITATION, COUCHSURFING OR HOSPITALITY NETWORK ARE. Hey, the Boston Bombing Killers are male and young, how do we know they're not into CS? Happy surfing in Boston! P.S. Ms. Lisa Jenkins never said she's CSurfing in India.
  • Roberta Cervantes Garcia P.S. I can understand the sense of the warning -- I wouldn't stay with male hosts in India either, nor in Muslin countries, since sometimes cultural matters can affect the perception towards single foreign females travelling alone (that you're looking for sex, for example). HOWEVER, this is misleading, it gives the impression that CS was involved in this. Please don't ruin your credibility! Not many people nowadays publish the bad side of CS since it became mainstream!
  • Antoine F Maybe, but by posting this message with "bad experiences with CS", we except that the subject are closely linked, moreover you gave no precision in your summary. You should post that on your personal profile and keep here only messages related to "bad experiences with CS" if you want to be clear.
  • Bad experiences with Couchsurfing: the dark side Sorry, I don't agree. It is related. I'm warning female CS members not to be naive and couchsurf with men they don't know in countries where females, especially single white ones, are often considered easy prey.
  • Bad experiences with Couchsurfing: the dark side Sorry I had to ban Lisa Jenkins because her comments became abusive and personal. Please stay civil. Personal attacks have no place here.
  • Binyamine Leville @Roberta Cervantes Garcia: When you say "SHE HITCHIKED! This is obviously far riskier than CouchSurfing"

    Do you have data on this ? I mean getting raped while hitchhiking is a rare event and to my knowledge the few studies that have been conducted about the safety of HH were never able to show real danger.

    Jogging is a lot more dangerous than HH (check the rape statitistics, usually it is female joggers that get raped, not HHers) the same analysis can apply to using CS.
  • The PS Backpacker For women travelers, I recommend making enlightened choice for your hosts, whatever country they go to and whatever network they use for hospitality exchange.

    We (2 women) had a fantastic experience being hosted by a family in Rajasthan and I can't imagine what it would have been not to meet these people.

    Solo female travelers have to watch out for themselves; families, mostly feminine households or being hosted with someone else is generally safe, yet not a guaranty of safety.

    I personally deleted my profile on C$ after being discriminated based on my body image (PS Backpacker = Plus-Size Backpacker) and asking C$ to take action on this blatant discrimination case... and they refused.
  • Bad experiences with Couchsurfing: the dark side How exactly have you been discriminated against? I'm interested. There's a pattern of discrimination at CS it seems. They should partner with Spreadshirt. Same arrogant and despising attitude.

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